It really shouldn’t be so hard to find a sweet, beautiful woman. There are a lot of awesome, warm-hearted women in the world, but there are also a lot of people that simply aren’t worth your time. It can be discouraging when you hit it off with someone that turns out to have a mean streak, but the important thing is to just keep looking. Dating personals can really help with the search.
I’m not saying all the people you find online are going to be amazing. People are people no matter where you find them and you always get a huge mix of different types. The thing about online dating is that, if you take the time to exchange a few e-mails first, you have the opportunity to take your time and think about what to say so that when it comes time to meet you should already have some idea of what their personalities are like and your impression won’t be overly colored because they are amazing to look at, you’re caught up in the excitement or because you’re so nervous you catch only enough of the conversation to keep it going.
I know what we’re all after is the excitement of meeting someone great and getting to know them in person, but most of us, if we’re being honest, will have to admit that we’ve rushed into some bad decisions because we were so enamored with our first impression of someone that we didn’t see who they really were.
I’m not suggesting that you should be overly critical when you encounter someone online, or anywhere else for that matter. All I’m saying is that there is some benefit to moving slowly and having the opportunity to take your time reading what people write. It lets you think more clearly about who they are and what it is that you really want.
It may sound like I’m taking a bit of the fun out of things, but when you meet a sweet, beautiful woman, rather than one who is just beautiful, but lacking the sweetness, you’ll probably find that you’re at the beginning of a truly good relationship, and that will really be exciting.