If you look around you, you will probably see that cool guys tend to be more popular than boring guys.
Sure, you can be nice and you can be good-looking. You can even hang out with women all the time. But if the women around you dont think you are cool or exciting, then they are just going to see you as a friend.
A fellow dating coach, Jay Julio, has written a new book on How To Be The Cook Guy With Women. I have read it and I can say that its packed with some very solid material.