In the past, I have written about how you should not let your past hold you back or let your mother dominate your love life. However, today I am going to show you the ONE scenario when you SHOULD pay close attention to what your mom has to say about your relationships.
It is when she tells you that your new girlfriend may have psychological problems.
Now, I am not talking about her telling you that it is a bad idea to marry your girlfriend because she is of a different race or because she is from a different religious background. I am not talking about her telling you your girlfriend is below you. (You gotta learn to pick out the gold nuggets from the bullsh**). What I am talking about is her being worried about your relationship because your girlfriend seems to be a little bit unstable.
Why? Because 9 out of 10 times, your mother will be right.
I do not know why it is. It is just something I have observed over the years. Women just seem to be able to smell unstable women from a mile away.
I have seen it at least a few dozen times and in the cases where the guys ignore the advice, they usually end up REALLY hurt. (I even have clients that were physically abused by these unstable women.)
So if your mom pulls you aside and tells you she thinks your girlfriend is crazy, instead of feeling insulted, take note!